Mastering the Arousal Triggers for Your Woman: A Comprehensive Guide

When it comes to the whole issue of pleasing a woman, every man has something they think works sensual miracles for their woman. You cannot blame the fellas- having a dick and a lifetime supply of testosterone can only lead to a dominative way of thinking. But what does a woman need to get her bells and whistles going?

The answer is quite a puzzle just like a woman’s idea of sexual temptations and desires. Women are different, the secret is understanding what works for your woman and finding a sustainable way to pleasure her brains out!

Lucky for you Byjoslyn has all the modernized accessories and sex toys designed around a woman’s sexual anatomy to get her in orgasmic euphoria.

Important Facts Every Man Should Know About Women in General

1. Some women are predisposed to cum despite a man’s effort. Some will have an effusive female ejaculation whenever they are aroused. Others will be drenched in a pool of sweat immediately their arousal triggers are touched just because they were born naturally orgasmic.
2. The women described above and typical women have one thing in common; expressing their raw nature during intercourse with any sex partner has to be on a foundation of trust. Your woman needs to feel accepted in all manner to offer her body to you for whatever fantasies you would like to exercise.
3. The learning process (Mastering the Arousal Triggers for Your Woman) involves trial and errors until the ultimate sex technique is discovered. For the modern woman, this has to involve strategic sex accessories to get her hot on wheels to orgasm town.    

First Things First- Dealing with the Inability to Get Your Woman to Cum

The important question to ask is if indeed you are as great as you claim to be in bed. By her reaction after pleasuring her, if you feel terrible in bed we are more than eager to help out!

The best lessons are learnt in moments of frustration. At Byjoslyn we got it all! Our entire product line is developed by world-class innovators backed by extensive scientific research in sexual health.

Our assortment of lubricants is a must-have for partners who go all out on virginal and anal sex. the list of vibrators we offer are specific to your wildest canal moment; from vibrating Cock Rings, G-sport Vibrators, Clitoral Stimulators, Couple’s Vibrators, Masturbators and so much more!

Common Sexual Frustrations Expressed By Most Partners:

• She just won’t cum no matter what I do; stroke her clitoris, finger her, eat her out, suck on her nipples etc.
• Even worse than being unable to get her motor running is knowing that she can get herself to cum without you in the picture.
• What sucks, even more, is the insecurity that all this brings out in a man. Your sexual life is at rock bottom if you find yourself constantly apologizing for your inability to satisfy her.
• How you can get yourself out of this distasteful place in your relationship is following the recommendations made by this guide and spicing up your sex life with the sex products best suited to her most intimate needs.

Restore the Vitality of Her Womanhood with Good Clean Love Bio Match Restore Moisturizing Personal Lubricant - 2 Oz

Many are blind to the benefits of good lube. Perfect vaginal flora is not by mere chance, it’s by proper hygienic care.  Your choice of lube, however, has to be well informed to avoid buying a substandard product. At Byjoslyn we are heavily in the future of sexual wellness. As such we keep up with all the emerging trends that are backed up by independently done scientific research.

Bio Match Restore Moisturizing Personal Lubricant - 2 Oz is an example of patented lube in our extensive product line. This personal lubricant moisturizes in a manner that is in tune with your body elements; balanced pH Levels, balanced salt levels but most importantly balanced lubrication during sex. Our All Natural Lubes are designed from an authentic formula that is tried and tested. You will be amazed at how a perfect vaginal floral free from itching, odours or dryness turns sex into an expression of raw love.            

Pleasure secrets found within a pussy- Understanding Erogenous Spots

Let’s dive straight into the juicy stuff!

The pussy is a wonderland. Of all the sensitive spots found in the nooks and crannies of a pussy the ultimate spot that sets everything in motion just happens to be her brain.

The good thing, however, is that the brain can also be aroused. Get her mentally ready for sex and she will present you with everything she has to offer. FOREPLAY, anyone man able to fulfil a woman’s true desires are tactful when it comes to foreplay.

Mental Foreplay- Getting Her Ready for Sex  

There is a reason that women value communication more than men do. Men respond perfectly to sight and this is what matters to most of them. Women, on the other hand, depend on more than what they see, they need time to develop an abstract connection.

Develop a communication channel with the girl you want and when she gets comfortable with you to start hinting sex.

• Text messages are effective at this point. “Been thinking about your fine butt all day long, Can’t wait to see you.” You do not want to overdo it but at the same time, you need to keep the idea alive in her head.
• If you feel the time is not the right time to go out strong you can hint sex by bringing up your past relationships. This is also an area that requires dexterity. Women do not like to get thrown off. Be subtle in bringing up sexually related topics. Now and then is a good time to set her hell-bent on ravishing you.
• Touch her with some intention. Women like a man who shows initiative. Hinting sex in a text is one thing, flirting with her in person is even better. Let her feel wanted.
• When a woman is ready for sex, this is an opportune time to step up your game. Many feel the need to talk to a friend about it but for smart people who do a background check from professional sites like Byjoslyn.com, they get the skills and the tools for the erotic task ahead.   

Physical Foreplay- Getting Her Ravenous for Sex

Physical foreplay is important in getting a woman to shed off all her inhibitions to fully indulge in sex in a way that fulfils her. In physical foreplay, your touch must be intentional. Kissing her sensually, letting your fingers explore all parts of her body other than the obvious spots, oral sex and the dirty talk are all conventional in foreplay.

Spicing Foreplay with a Clitoral Stimulator

When you get the chance to pleasure a woman, your technique needs to be systematic. Working your way to deep kissing should be followed by sensual touching. Going down on a woman will get her juices flowing but at this specific moment, a clitoral stimulator will get her howling to intense orgasmic waves invading her entire body.

Fifty Shades Freed Sweet Release Rechargeable Clitoral Suction Stimulator

This incredible device comes with 4 intensity levels and 4 suction patterns as well. This ensures that you pleasure her systematically until she is all set to take it to overdrive for a cosmic orgasm. You can also set the entire sex toy to vibrate as it works the clitoris. This function has up to 12 vibration speeds which all induces mixed sensations for a woman making her crave you inside her.      

The Female Sexual Anatomy- Erogenous Spots

Whenever a woman is aroused it’s not just a single point of her body that acts as a pleasure spot due to increased sensitivity. You have to work your touch to cover the better part of her body.

1. It all starts with a kiss for most of us. Where should your hands start from this point?
2. Start by exploring her back, let your hand run up and with a firm but gentle grip hold her by the back of her neck as your other hand works itself to her lower back. Let her guide the kissing to gauge her level of stimulation. By the time you get a handful of her ass, some women might even bite you. This is the precise moment to seek out erogenous spots.  
3. If by now you are deep kissing, do not dive right to her snatch- go with her flow. Let your lips explore the rest of her body keeping an ear out on her breathing. The neck is the best place to start. Let your kiss feel intentionally curious and explorative. Gentle and slow kisses anywhere you can on the neck, collar bone, close to her earlobes- let her feel your heavy breathing on her skin as your hand edge to her thighs.
4. By this point, she will be snatched away at your shirt/ t-shirt, get her naked first.
5. Kiss her lips momentarily and let your lips seek out more erogenous spots on her body. As you kiss her close to the chest, the more sensitive her nipples will get, take time to feel out her breast before sucking her entire nipple into your mouth. When the time is right to move further down to get a better feel of her curves, do it with dexterity to keep her desire building. Most women at this point will be pushing your head down to where it hurts the most.

The All-inclusive Kiiroo Onyx2 & Pearl2 Interactive Masturbator-vibrator Kit

When it comes to external erogenous spots, your hands are sufficient to get her going. For her interior points, however, you need a toy specifically designed to stimulate each spot. 

This complete set of vibrator contains one peral2 device and one Kiiroo Onyx2. This combination is second to none in the market and a girl’s secret best friend. The vibrator kit is currently the most effective G-spot stimulator device able to mimic sex. One of the strong points is that it has user-friendly smart interphase that lets a woman have her moment in the sun uninterrupted.

This kit is recommendable for a single-use or with a partner. For Onyx2 it can attain a frequency of 140 strokes/minute working a G-spot or clitoris relentlessly!

Eating her Fanny out Like a Muffin  

• Many male partners lick or rub the clit vertically where else women like it done horizontally.
• The clitoris just like the dick can be jerked off! Grab the small guy by the hood, tag it gently backwards then to the front. This secret move gets girls euphoric.
• Make a well-defined O with your mouth and then suck her clitoris in such a motion that her pussy slowly slides out of your lips. Try to get her to stop screaming at this point if you can.  

Bottom Line

You will have to practice every other time you get a chance to master your technique. Do not expect that you will try the techniques described and immediately light her up just like flickering a switch.

Take time to discover her body, ask her what she likes. You might be surprised how misguided you were once you learn about what works for her and how much of a freak she can transform to be. At Byjoslyn we understand sex and we are more than eager to help you blow her mind!