Pain-Free Anal Sex for People With Sizable Dicks
No matter what you may have heard about anal sex, you only get to master it by doing a background check and getting a guided head start especially if your dick has an above-average girth. Sex is so much more than it used to be for those willing to explore their options. Sexual gratification features more than typical vaginal penetration and all the foreplay you can exercise.
Have you experienced primal anal sex from a partner who can cope with your current level of anal sex gratification? A well-stipulated guide is all you need to make the best out of your first anal experience.
Once you experience a new type of orgasm that will leave your entire body jittery, you will understand why people say it is easy to get hooked up on anal sex. It is the perfect way to be kinky with your partner and comes with minimal risks once proper planning is done.
Here is how you can manage anal pain to make anal sex a desirable experience that you can both enjoy.
The Basics:
- Plenty of medical-grade anal lube
- Butt plugs and anal beads always come in handy
- Do not insert anything that was in the butt in a vagina or your mouth
Malesation 3 Pc Anal Starter Kit
This is an excellent anal trainer kit to let you establish your comfort zone in this type of sex. It features an excellent design suitable for a beginner inclusive of a silicone classic plug S, 3 anal beads, and an anal douche. All these come with a secure storage bag for increased convenience when traveling or when stashing your fun toys away. The Malesation 3 piece Anal Starter Kit is also top-rated for impeccable hygiene as you can clean its waterproof surface effortlessly.
Price $40 (shop now)
Get To Know Your Butt
This is the best way to orient yourself to anal play. Have fun with your tight backdoor next time you feel horny and masturbate. Get your lube and massage your anus gently before sliding in a finger. Gently finger yourself, feeling the inside, and massaging your rectum. Be generous with the lube to enjoy it even more. Once you are in the mood, graduate to a slim dildo. Lube it up and gently slide it up the ass. Penetration is hard to achieve at first so just relax your muscles with your legs spread wide. With sufficient lubrication, the tip will find its way in, and its a straight road to cloud nine from this point. Graduate to different dildo sizes until you can comfortably fit one that is equivalent to your partner’s penis size.
Important Tip: We strongly suggest using a dildo with a flared bottom to enhance your grip but most importantly to prevent the toy from getting sucked in once you are in action. Remember these are the forces of the ass you are dealing with and the force is strong considering its all muscles and pleasant tightness!
Doc's Anal Lube - 4.5 Oz
We cannot insist enough on using a suitable lube to aid smooth penetration. The anus does not naturally lubricate like it is the case for a vagina. Being stingy with lube will lead to abrasion which can literary be a pain in the ass. A single smear of Doc’s Anal Lube goes a long way to make penetration seamless. This is a superior ointment than typical lubricants and is more consistent thus effective for virgin butts. It also features a great design in a sizable 4.5 oz bottle fitted with a pump. Nothing is as fulfilling as slippery anal sex. Your partner will definitely need some getting used to pace himself from cumming too fast.
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Focus More on Anal Play Before Engaging Actively in Anal Sex
Do not forget that the allure of anal sex, especially for a partner with a big penis, can overwhelm them thus getting into a spirited thrusting frenzy which will lead to anal pain. Do not blame them, the warmth, tightness coupled up with a slippery lube are all too fascinating for anyone to control their impulses.
Be patient in your try out phase. Engage your partner in a sensual anal play using their fingers, tongue, and toys to stimulate your backdoor. Let your partner understand that this is something new for you and hence you are nervous. In doing so, they will be gentle and work their way up to the point where you are comfortable and you can both effectively manage anal pain.
Renegade Body Cleanser – Blue
You will be free to express intense lovemaking and master your foreplay when personal hygiene is guaranteed. The body cleanser is an ingenious accessory that washes out the anus and also gets lube deeper to attain the desired lubrication for sweet slippery anal sex. The Renegade body cleanser is very user-friendly. You squeeze the bulb which is the bottom part of the cleanser to draw in liquid and once you have lubricated the nozzle, insert it and clean out the rectum. Use the same procedure to lubricate the rectum for easier penetration.
Price $17.49 (shop now)
Important Tip: When the day comes and you are both comfortable to try anal sex with his endowed manhood taking a lead role, start with usual vaginal sex with an aim of getting you to have an orgasm first. The body tends to relax more after having a sexual release making anal sex less strenuous. Just because the highlight of the day is anal sex, it does not mean you neglect the erogenous sex organs. Work the clitoris and other spots to get her going.
Communication Breaks Barriers
Communication is important in every stage. Let your partner work based on your feedback concerning speed, pressure, depth of penetration, and so on. Slow anal sex makes it enjoyable for both partners so manage your excitement, breathe consistently, and engage your partner. To start, he should massage your sacral region (the area above the butt) and the surface of your anus. A little love shown on these regions eliminates all tensions by the strong sphincter muscles. After lubricating his penis and the eagerly waiting backdoor, let him press his penis on the surface of the anus rubbing it gently. The girl should control the penetration as she breathes deeply to keep the body relaxed. The girl on top position is the best followed by doggy style because they allow you to regulate insertion, depth, and speed.
Important Tip: Silicone-based lubes are more recommendable than water-based lubes as they last longer without losing their consistency. This prevents constant lubrication in between sex which breaks the flow of your fascinating carnal experience.
Sir Richards Elements Prostate Massager - Slate
This is another strategic sex accessory to have in your naughty arsenal. For women, they do not have a prostrate instead they have the Skene’s gland which can also be stimulated to attain orgasm. Sir Richards is specifically designed to massage the sensitive gland with powerful vibrations that often lead to multiple orgasms. The medical-grade device holds power for a long duration and is made using a platinum silicone with a USB charging port. The body-safe massager is also phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and waterproof which makes it easy to maintain.
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Best Way To Enjoy Anal Sex
With the woman on top sex position get into position after thorough lubrication of the penis’ entire shaft and the anal region. The woman is in control in this position. Push your body against his erect penis relaxing your butt until the tip penetrates in. Pause for a couple of seconds as you focus on your breathing to keep your muscles free of tension. When you are all set to get him deeper inside you, gently push to let an inch of his shaft slide in. Thrust with gentle motion and keep increasing the depth of penetration and speed at your own pace. Move up and down his penis slowly until his penis is comfortably fitted in the rectum. Keep communication open as you enjoy every single second of the moment.
When the feeling is all nice and good, you can let him take control by switching to a doggy position. By now your anus is well relaxed. Lubricate during the transition and start the penetration process all over again. Let him place his hard dick on the surface of your butt and let you push against his body to regulate the penetration. This is important as it prevents him from ramming his meat through which would can anal pain. Feel free to take breaks whenever you want and do not forget to breathe consistently to keep your muscles relaxed. If you experience pain at any point, stop and rework your motions until you get it right. Remember anal sex should be enjoyable for both partners.
Use a butt plug or anal beads to prepare for anal sex a couple of hours before your partner gets home. The procedure for penetration is all the same and they get you already in the mood for amorous anal sex!